They are already packed to leave. Or they have yet to really arrive. They are wavering. They meet at that junction between really knowing and really doubting where they are and what their role is. One likes to dance. The other likes to film. Together they slip into a performance sphere driven by a desire to exchange roles and share skills.
Food for Thought:
Why is it that some people seem to be hugely successful and do so much, while the vast majority of us struggle to tread water? There are a host of other differences, but they can effectively be boiled down to two things: fear and reality. Amateurs believe that the world should work the way they want it to. Professionals realize that they have to work with the world as they find it. Amateurs are scared — scared to be vulnerable and honest with themselves.
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The word amateur is normally used to mean: somebody who does something e. The opposite of an amateur is a professional. He or she will expect to be paid a professional fee for the job.
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