Remember that orgasm is primarily an event that occurs in, and is about, the nervous system. Yes, most people have most of their orgasms due to stimulation that is about or includes genital stimulus. But not all people, and again, for most, it's not JUST about that stimulation, but about whole body and whole mind stuff. Reaching orgasm due to massage really isn't bizarre.
And remember to take a look at my new video program — Squirting Triggers 2. Some of the more common reasons for pretending to orgasm were, wanting the sex to end and not wanting to create hard feelings between themselves and their partner. For men, sexual arousal is like a simmering pot. Feelings of sexual desire are frequently spontaneous, and orgasm is easily achieved by the majority of men, due to these two factors. Female desire is more responsive in nature, and as opposed to the already simmering pot of male sexual around, women first must be brought to a simmer before they can be brought to a boil. And, while men may use sex and orgasm as a form of stress relief; stress and tension play a very different role in female desire, arousal, and, ultimately, orgasm. A number of stressors can have their impact on women making it difficult for them to become aroused or achieve orgasm.
You get an orgasm, you get an orgasm, you get an orgasm! August McLaughlin is a writer, sex-positive advocate, and frequent speaker on sexuality and gender issues. Her brand and podcast, Girl Boner, is all about recognizing and embracing female sexual pleasure for the powerful and necessary! The most iconic moment of pleasure, of course, is the orgasm. That's exactly why, here, McLaughlin shares an excerpt from her book, Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment , about the seven different types of orgasms women can have, from G-spot orgasms to back- gasms yes, really!
I have to admit: when a Girl Boner Radio listener wrote in about her tendency to orgasm during massages, I was a wee bit envious. And I was basically okay with that. What is up with that? Also, I keep wanting more massage appointments, haha. Any suggestions? And you deserve them, Dalia! Most massage therapists are well aware of this, and even learn about in their training. Megan Fleming —relaxation being the biggie.